My first Sex Toy: Buying guide for women

First of all, we would like to congratulate you for being here, for reaching your goal, for overcoming all the myths and taboos surrounding sex toys and for daring to explore and enjoy your sexuality freely.
Here we will introduce you to this extraordinary world of sexual play.

Get ready to play!

One of the bases to start is to know yourself, it is essential that you take a moment for yourself, that you touch yourself and discover what excites you and what you like to feel, also during your sexual encounters, remember what excites you, how do you reach the climax?
Once you feel that you know what you like, it will be easier to choose the perfect device.


What sex toy do I want?

1. What body part do you want to stimulate?
Now that you've passed the self-awareness test, it's time to choose what you want to stimulate. There are sex toys that focus on vaginal, clitoral or anal stimulation.
2. Choose the shape.
There are many options with phallic and realistic shapes, but if you want to be innovative, there are also options with fun shapes and colors that can be extravagant or discreet if you want to enjoy yourself anywhere.
3. What material is best?
Some of the best options are medical or surgical silicone as they are very safe, flexible and easy to clean. Other cheap and safe options are ABS plastic toys, but they can be a little harder and less flexible, which can cause discomfort if not used carefully.
4. What is your budget?
An important part is money, establish what your budget is, there are many economical options that range from €20 to €100 to start with.


Now that you've thought about the answers to the previous questions, we can get into the details of sex toys based on the type of stimulation you've chosen.

Clitoral stimulation

	The vibrating finger. Ideal for foreplay or solo play. If you want to progress gradually with a simple intimate toy, this is an excellent choice because it is a vibrating extension of your fingers that renews the experience of touch.
	Clitoral stimulators. The clitoral stimulator is a pleasure object designed to stimulate the glans of the clitoris. They come in all shapes and sizes, with vibration and/or suction. Place it on the clitoris and vary the vibration modes and speeds depending on the model you choose. In recent years, the revolution in the world of sex toys has been forced air technology, which blows air onto the clitoris and causes powerful orgasms by vibrating the clitoris deeply. The pioneer of this technology is the American brand Womanizer. These toys are perfect for pleasing your clitoris, but also for stimulating other parts of your body, it's an all-in-one toy.
	Vibrating eggs. A vibrating egg is a type of egg-shaped vibrator. It provides a vibrating massage and can be placed in the vagina or anus. Its use allows all kinds of vibratory stimulation. Clitoral masturbation is one of the strong points of this toy. Most models are equipped with a variator to control the intensity of the vibrations. Some vibrating eggs are waterproof and suitable for use in water, others are wireless with a radio control or via a Bluetooth application. They are sometimes equipped with a silicone cover, picot or otherwise, with straps that form a kind of thong that holds the device to the vulva and allows it to be worn for a long periods.
	Suction cups, aspirators or vaginal pumps. The vaginal pump is not a very popular item. For good reason: its name is not very reassuring and does not always make you want to learn how to use it. It looks more like an oxygen mask than a sex toy. And yet this accessory is first and foremost an object of pleasure. It consists of several parts: a plastic or silicone chamber to be placed on the vulva and a manual or automatic pump. The two are connected by a small tube. The material can vary depending on the model. The pump mechanism can be shaped like a pear or a lever, depending on your preference. It is a great first toy that will complete your experience on the way to orgasm.

Vaginal stimulation

	Vibrators. It is the most popular, when you think of sex toys it is certainly the first that comes to mind, and it is also an excellent way to get started in this world of pleasure. One piece of advice we can give you is to start with small sizes. And increase the size over time to get used to it.
	"Rabbit" vibrators. The Rabbit is surely the most satisfying vibrator for women because it stimulates both the vagina and the clitoris. The Rabbit vibrator lives up to its name! This sex toy is actually made up of two different parts, allowing you to stimulate two very erogenous zones. One, in the shape of a penis, is inserted into the vagina, while the other, in the shape of rabbit ears, cuddles the clitoris.
	Dildos. The famous dildo! This artificial phallus comes in all sizes, shapes and colors. If vibration isn't your first step and you're a little more traditional, the dildo can be your first sex toy to rediscover your sexuality.

Anal stimulation

Anal Plug. The anal plug is a sex toy designed to be inserted into the rectum. It resembles a dildo in some ways, but tends to be shorter and has a flanged end to prevent the device from getting lost inside. The plug is a great option for the adventurous soul. It is perfect to choose as your first sex toy as it is small and discreet, allowing for gentle and delicate penetration with easy handling.

What can go wrong?

We've all heard stories of people having to go to the emergency room after sticking something up their butt.
If you're planning on using anal toys and want to avoid a very unpleasant ambulance ride, make sure you get something with a flared base or, if you're going for anal beads, something with a long enough handle to make it easier to pull out. Don't get lost in the rectal cavity.
It is important to be careful with devices made of rigid and inflexible materials, such as metal or hard plastic.
It is also important to use a lubricant, and the right one for your toy.


Cleaning

When used frequently, your toys can get dirty.

This may seem obvious, but wash your toys after use.
Many people put their toys back in the drawer after an orgasm, leave them there and forget about them.
This post-session wash is really important for your toys. You can get baby wipes, special sex toy cleaners, or just washing with a little soap and water can also help with longevity and hygiene.
It's also a good idea to wrap your toys in a condom, especially if you're going to share them and use them in different orifices at the same time.


Extra pleasure bonus

To enhance your first experience with your sex toy, you can fill your bag with sexy lingerie, scented candles or anything else you can think of.
We wish you lots of orgasms and pleasure with your first sex toy on this journey of pleasure that you are about to embark on.